I attended a conference session called, “Defusing the Power of Toxic Religion for Sexual Advocacy,†because I’m writing a memoir…
Do you wear a wig around the house, even when you’re by yourself? I do, and I feel conflicted about…
My Writing-For-Freedom Summer has come to an end. I learned under instructors I would like to take back to…
I’ve been trying to process why Prince’s death feels so much worse to me than Michael Jackson’s or even Whitney…
You may ask for freedom only if you live above reproach. That was the message to enslaved black people in…
In my last column for NCR, I wrote about my somewhat surprising desire to find a church home in my…
Around this time last year, I was parked in the lobby of a hotel in Tobago (the smaller island of…
I remember attending a Sunday school class several years ago in which the gentleness of God was the topic. I…
On September 1, 2015, I will begin the master of fine arts program in creative writing at Rutgers University-Camden. This…
“There are all boys at Stephanie’s (invented name) house, so you can’t turn up like you do here. You have…
Earlier this week I wrote in my journal that I need a spiritual practice that includes faith and hope,…
Since January, I’ve been making an effort to accept my own challenge of re-envisioning God. I made a silent commitment…
One of the reasons I stopped working on my memoir was because when an agent strongly suggested I adapt my…
I spent a portion of my last day at 33 dancing and thinking about the messages in the dance. On…
I write about my life of “existing in many spaces at once, holding multiple identities and not quite serving…
I could have had this blog entry completed and posted yesterday, but I chose to spend time I could have…
I got a surprise during a recent visit to a public library to use a computer. I looked up from…
April, the only character on Grey’s Anatomy who identifies as Christian and the only one who has conflicts about…
“Intergenerational Prostitution.” These words greeted viewers at yesterday morning’s Daughters of Greatness breakfast. I’ve become a regular attendee at the Ali…
I’ve made a commitment to #BlogLikeCrazy this month, an action I believe is necessary but also for real for real…
I left the gym three-and-a-half hours after arriving there the other day. I’m not obsessed, I promise. One hour of…
Many years ago, my father said that by the time I have children, they’ll be white kids dipped in chocolate….
I recently received some proof my normal-person job is important. I try to keep my normal-person job (as opposed to…
Last Thursday, Jeff Chu, author of the new book, “Does Jesus Really Love Me? A Gay Christian’s Pilgrimage in Search…
Today I’m joining what I hope will be billions of women all over the world in celebrating “One Billion Rising,”…