Last night, as I was wracking my brain to come up with an end-of-year post that was reflective, inspirational and…
My church did Resurrection Sunday differently this year. The Drama Ministry and Choir conducted the whole service, except for the…
One of the reasons I stopped working on my memoir was because when an agent strongly suggested I adapt my…
This inconsistency between black identity and Christianity’s role in the oppression of black people is something I think all black…
I spent a portion of my last day at 33 dancing and thinking about the messages in the dance. On…
Despite the photos I’m posting on Facebook and Twitter, this trip isn’t all, or even 10%, about the beach. It’s…
I write about my life of “existing in many spaces at once, holding multiple identities and not quite serving…
I saw a lot of men up in arms on social media yesterday over a New Jersey Superior Court judge’s…
I said I wouldn’t write about this because I knew I wouldn’t download the album until after Christmas and my…
What makes me a feminist? I’ve been thinking about this question since my feminism history class last night. We were…
No, not Mellie, even though I am writing this after Scandal. At a housewarming party last week for a…
A note about today’s post: I have a bi-weekly column on National Catholic Reporter, and I plan to use these…
I think Olivia Pope was wrong about herself on last night’s “Scandal.†I don’t think she wants painful love (which…
(For the first Faith & Feminism Friday of 2013, I’m a guest contributor on the “Feminism and Religion” blog. The…
Dear Ms. Rhimes: Most of the time, I love you and you make me regret not sticking it…
I have a problem with obedience—not necessarily the action, but the idea of it. Obedience implies acts done with or…
Sometimes I read posts written as responses to something unusual and esoteric written online and wonder how the respondent found…
In part 1, I talked about Hanna Rosin’s book The End of Men and the Rise of Women and suggested that…
Last Saturday, for the first time ever, I went to a wedding and took notes. I think most single women…
The following is part of a real text conversation that took place February 2, 2012. ME: Did u know the…
The full name of this blog is Redbone Afropuff & Black GRITS. I generally ignore the part after “and†because…