Dear Readers, I’ve been blogging at Redbone Afropuff & Black GRITS since 2009. It’s been a great run, but as…
I attended a conference session called, “Defusing the Power of Toxic Religion for Sexual Advocacy,†because I’m writing a memoir…
Read the whole letter here. Also note: Carrie Fisher, her mother Debbie Reynolds, and Carolyn Miller-Cooper passed before my editor’s filing…
On Sunday, I thought I shared a link to my new podcast, but it turns out I didn’t. Click here…
A podcast featuring a 30-something black woman and her dad, talking about life. Click here to listen. (I hadn’t actually made…
I’ve been trying to process why Prince’s death feels so much worse to me than Michael Jackson’s or even Whitney…
Since I see no reason to add to the thousands of think pieces EBONY magazine’s November cover story, “Cosby vs. Cliff,â€Â undoubtedly…
In my last column for NCR, I wrote about my somewhat surprising desire to find a church home in my…
ME: I had a good life. My program wasn’t what I really wanted, and it was hard to do that…
“He is guilty of self-confessed crimes against women such that we should break his albums, burn his tapes and scratch…
I remember attending a Sunday school class several years ago in which the gentleness of God was the topic. I…
On September 1, 2015, I will begin the master of fine arts program in creative writing at Rutgers University-Camden. This…
I’ve seen an interesting photo on Facebook a couple of times in recent days: In case you can’t see it,…
Last month, I unveiled my new personal mission statement: to help Black women and girls in my community discover…
I envy Ann Bauer’s life. I began reading her piece for Salon, “‘Sponsored’ by my husband: Why it’s a…
“If you had a little girl right now, how would you discipline her?” a friend asked me recently. “I don’t…
Click here to listen to the music with the above photo Update 07/16/2014: I’m having some technical difficulties with the…
I wrote my first post/essay of the day at about 2:00 in the afternoon on yet another day that I told…
Last week I had the privilege of attending Freedom Dreams Freedom Now, a conference sponsored by the Social Justice Initiative at…
Some context: 1. It’s really late. 10:57 central time. 2. I’m at a social justice conference structured to commemorate the…
I’m a little late on looking back, but I wrote 67 posts in 2013. Here’s my top 10 list of…
In “The Comfort of a Sweet, Black, Dreadlocked Jesus,” I recalled the image of Jesus Christ as depicted in a painting…
Yesterday’s Thanksgiving dinner—or whatever you might call the meal you eat at 3:00 p.m.—surprised me. First, the food was amazing….
It’s the obligatory Thanksgiving Day post. Mine is composed of the few things I’m not only thankful for but happy…
What makes me a feminist? I’ve been thinking about this question since my feminism history class last night. We were…